Here
are some basic guidelines that I have developed to help the individual
seeking to recover from alcohol or other drug (AOD) addiction through
complete abstinence and use of support from attendance of 12 Step
meetings:
Avoid Access to AOD
1. Avoid AOD and AOD users completely.
2. Do not stay in the same room or at a party, while someone is preparing to use or is using AOD.
3. Do not help friends find AOD or go along to watch.
4. Do not touch or handle AOD at any time.
5. Do
not accept or fill any prescription without verifying the substance to
be free of abuse potential. Do not rely upon the physician for this
information; ask an addictions expert.
6. Read
labels of over-the-counter medications; avoid liquids, such as cough
and cold preparations, with alcohol in them, and choose "non-drowsiness"
formulations.
7. Do not go to a place you know will result in access or put you in an environment normally frequented by users.
Avoid Unstructured Time
1. Avoid
boredom, long periods of time with nothing to do, and isolation from
persons who support your recovery. Get a job; go to AA/NA meetings; make
friends with recovering people; develop new, or brush off old, hobbies,
which you do not associate with use.
2.
Especially avoid empty, unplanned periods at those times when you used
to do AOD. Plan positive activities for dangerous times, preferably with
persons who support your recovery.
Avoid
holding large sums of money. For example, on payday, arrange for direct
deposit and go to an AA/NA meeting right after work.
Identify and Prepare for Craving Triggers
1.
Identify your personal cues for AOD craving/hunger, relative to sights,
smells, sounds, events, people, and avoid if possible. Some common
examples are music, sex, after work, payday, weekends, when significant
other is away for a period of time, etc. Develop a survival plan for
those (unavoidable) situations in which triggers are present, or
craving/hunger occurs.
2.Brand
into your brain that obsessions(recurring thoughts) or compulsions
(craving or drug hunger which seems physically based) are normal and
need not be acted on! In other words, just because you want to get high
does not mean that you have to or should!
Learn To Handle Emotions
1.
Mood swings, anxiety, insomnia, depression, anhedonia
(pleasurelessness; present especially in cocaine addict), loneliness,
feelings of worthlessness, fear of impending doom, are all common in
early recovery. Remember that feelings need not be acted on
destructively, and will pass.
2.
Learn new tools to deal with "negative" feelings, such as, calling
someone in recovery, going to an AN/NA meeting, using spiritual tools
(prayer, meditation).
3.
Ask for help from professionals (if not already in treatment) if
negative feeling states continue to the point where you feel on the
verge of relapse or other destructive behavior.
4. Remember that
your basic recovery tool is involvement with recovering, supportive
persons. Substitute healthy reliance on people for AOD.
The above guidelines are simple, practical suggestions that can be helpful to the individual recovering from any addiction.